How to Love a Child

  1. Give your presence, laugh, dance and sing together.
  2. Listen from a heart space, encourage, understand.
  3. Allow them to love themselves, ask their opinions.
  4. Learn from them, say YES as often as possible.
  5. Say NO when necessary, honor their No's.
  6. Apologize, touch gently, build lots of blanket forts.
  7. Open up, fly kites together.
  8. Lighten up, believe in the possibilities.
  9. Read books out loud, create a circle of quiet.
  10. Teach feelings, share your dreams, walk in the rain.
  11. Celebrate mistakes, admit yours.
  12. Frame their artwork, stay up late together.
  13. Eliminate comparison, delight in silliness.
  14. Handle with Care, protect them, cherish their innocence.
  15. Giggle, speak kindly, go swimming, splash.
  16. Let them help, let them cry, don't hide your tears.
  17. Brag about them, answer their questions.
  18. Let them go when it is time.
  19. Let them come back.
  20. Show compassion, bend to speak to the wee ones
  21. Smile, even when your tired, surprise them.
  22. Don't judge their friends out loud,
  23. Give them room to make decisions, even the little ones.
  24. Love all that they do.
  25. Honor their Differences,
  26. Respect them.
  27. Remember ...they have not been on this earth all that long.
  28. Remember ... They learn what they see and hear.
  29. Remember their love is...UNCONDITIONAL.